The "Three Obediences" means never working. Because if a woman works, her hands get rough and her skin turns dark, which makes her less beautiful.
Furthermore, you must never save money on your husband. Buy clothes and jewelry whenever you need to. Only with beautiful attire and accessories will you be stunning and charming, and only then will your husband adore you. Otherwise, no matter how much money you save for him, he’ll just spend it on some other vixen.
Then there is never being reasonable. You must learn to be completely unreasonable. If you start using logic with your husband, then neither of us will have any logic left. A man is the sky of the household; whatever he says is right, so we cannot argue with him.
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